Dear Annie: I really enjoy your column and read it daily. I’ve gotten a lot of insight from reading about other people’s lives and your words of wisdom to them.
As a hair stylist for over 35 years, I often offer a listening ear, too. My clients share many personal concerns and life stories with me. One thing I have always shared with them is to reverse the situation. When in doubt, what would you do or say if you were in xyz’s shoes? When you reflect on that, oftentimes the answer you’re looking for is right in front of you.
Keep up the good work! — A Friend From Michigan
Dear A Friend From Michigan: I couldn’t agree more. You’re right, perspective changes everything. That’s why I so often preach the Golden Rule: Treat others the way you’d want to be treated. A little compassion goes a long way, and it’s advice that never wears out.
Your clients are lucky to have you — as a stylist and a sounding board!
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